1-Difficult lesson; success in your career is not built on a system of meritocracy.

2-Always plan for and expect disruptions in your life.

3-Anger and fear are fruits of grief.

4-The difficulty you experience is not your final destination.

5-You are not responsible for other people’s emotions.

6-Toxic femininity in a woman’s life starts in their early teens when in middle school, they decide if they will be “hunter” or “prey”.

7- You cannot always have what you want.

8-Rather than fear disruptions in your life, expect and plan for those times of difficulty.

9-Entrepreneurs understand that corporate America gives you a salary so that you become addicted to their narratives and give up your dreams.

10- You will encounter individuals who can never be honest with you because they always lie to themselves.