1-When you lead with sincere intentions, people with egos will become your enemy.

2- People need you until they no longer need you.

3-There will be people who come into your life that make it so easy to say goodbye

4-Most of us interpret the world through bias and ignorance.

5-Those people in your life who are constantly pulling you down, let them go so you can move up.

6-You learn the most about others when you do not give them what they want.

7-Some individuals will spend time in a physical prison; so many in society serve a life sentence in the prison in their minds.

8-Be aware of evil thoughts, but never let them define who you are.

9-We seldom rise to the occasion we frequently fall to our level of competence.

10-How to survive in the corporate world or not:

-Keep your mouth shut

-Listen but only give positive feedback “Blind Allegiance.”

-Always feed the egos of the most insecure individuals in the room.

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1-Purity only has a value that people can see only in hindsight.

2-You are a learned person when you can sit alone in your discomfort and are serene.

3-You can only have emotional intelligence by learning about yourself, and you can only learn about yourself by learning from the emotional intelligence of others.

4-Being empathic requires your ability to sit in your own emotional discomfort so that you can sit through the emotional pain of others and make them comfortable.

5-Most of our growth in life is carved from the chaos of past storms, not the comfort of denial, bliss, or tears.

6-Love is a gift, not a guarantee; many times, your absences can teach them what your presence could not.

7-Only what has value can be taken for granted.

8-The wrong people in your life drain you; the right people in your life fill you.

9-When others do not respect you, excuse yourself from their disrespect.

10-Real strength does not need validation.

1-Time and time again throughout your life, you will see and experience humanity at its best and also at its worst.

2. A father must show love to his children; when others disrespect them, he must also have the capacity to become violent.

3-In some circles, telling the truth may be a liability.

4-Healing from your emotional scars is a choice that only you can make.

5-How others show up for you will elate you or disappoint you.

6-Your strength is observation without judgment.

7-Never invest time explaining yourself to those who have biased themselves against who you really are

8-If no one dislikes you, you have no authenticity.

9-Lack of action can be far more potent than words.

10–Know the line where fantasy ends, and reality begins.

1-Treat me with respect, and I will treat you with respect; treat me without respect, and I will acknowledge you; however, I will not engage with you and certainly will not respect you.

2-How others view you should not always be defended like it’s your truth.

3-There will be times when you will need to dismiss people back to the dysfunction they hold on to so fiercely.

4-Many times in your life, the right thing and the hard thing can be the same.

5-Sometimes you can love someone at the wrong time.

6-Become the person you say you are.

7-If everyone likes you, you have accomplished nothing in life.

8-Not all your problems in life will have a pretty answer; find comfort and peace in the absence of answers.

9-Your happiness is not dependent on anyone but yourself.

10-There is a difference between needing someone in your life and choosing to have someone in your life.

1-Thrive for success or thrive to be a man of values.

2-The world does not acknowledge your victimhood, only your results.

3-Hope is a dream; if you live in reality, create your own plans and execute.

4-Your looks will get someone’s attention until they no longer get others’ attention.

5-Living your life searching for validation means you will be eternally lost.

6-You can be anything, but it’s only a fantasy if you don’t try to discipline yourself.

7-People treat you how you let them.

8- Never work for survival, work for your dreams.

9-When your work becomes transactional, you have lost your dreams.

10-If you always tell the truth, the corporate world will label you a problem.

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1-Live in your reality and not in others’ illusions.

2-You may need to walk alone in truth rather than be in a group bonded by falsehood

3–Never pursue those things that compromise your identity.

4-Never lower your standards because it’s comfortable; raise your motivations to meet your purpose.

5-At some point in your life, you realize you no longer need to explain yourself to people who have no interest in understanding who you are.

6-The truth in your life is never revealed during chaos; truth is revealed in your moments of silence.

7-Your journey of knowledge is only for you; not everyone can join your path.

8-The clarity of your life mission is most prominent when you know and understand yourself.

9-The only person you need to be loyal to in life is yourself.

10-Sometimes the peace of being alone is more gratifying than the chaos of others.

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The corporate behavior towards you shows whether you are a priority.

2-Attention does not equal affection.

3-Being noticed in the workplace does not mean being valued.

4-When you are truthful to others, you destabilize the reality they created.

5-You fit in best in reality by validating others’ self-deception.

6—Most people live on the edge of reality, where their true selves never have to be confronted.

7-Always be yourself, and do not let others accept you on their terms; let them accept you under your terms

8-Do not make yourself smaller so others will accept you on your own terms, not theirs.

9-Truth and illusion cannot occupy the same space.

10-When you genuinely know who you are, you never compromise your values.

1-There is a difference between a leader you want to follow and a leader you need to follow.

2—Many want society to accept them, but ironically, we can only assume those like us.

3-You can appear very dangerous to those who live their lives based on the reality and narratives they have created.

4-Most grown adults are frightened children inside.

5-You can appear very dangerous to others who live their lives in a lie.

6-You can fit in best in reality by validating others’ self-deception.

7-The more honestly you speak, the less others like being around you.

8-Your presence can spark the part that others may not like to look at.

9-Every truth you speak may threaten others’ identity.

10-Pride cannot coexist with peace.

1-You can be shaped by pain or by love.

2-Be mindful of a mentor that provides knowledge versus wisdom.

3-Great difficulties and struggles brings great wisdom.

4-Wisdom is infinite, from the vision that others never see.

5-Thirty percent of people in your work environment complete seventy percent of the work; seventy percent of your associates are doing just enough to get by and not so little to be fired.

6-Not everyone deserves a place in your life or your heart.

7-You can hear others’ words; it’s more important to not ignore their actions.

8-There will be truths in life that you will not be able to unlearn.

9-Once life awakens you, you can never go back to ignorance.

10-There are truths in life you cannot ignore, nor escape.

1-Whoever is cold to you is not entitled to your warmth.

2-Forgiveness does not require that the person be in your physical space.

3-You will encounter many individuals in your life who are so broken that you will be able to see into their souls.

4-Many times in your life, perception is reality.

5-Many in life will dislike you because you do not serve their interests.

6-Titles may not always reflect accomplishments.

7-Imposter syndrome is far more common than you realize.

8-Your superpower to get through life is to make it your mission to understand adaptive neuroplastic resilience.

9-I cannot explain this; sometimes, when one of my patients dies, a small part of me dies with them.

10-When disrespectful to others, do not count on them being respectful to you.